My girlfriend’s sister brought up an interesting question the other day: Why don’t Chelsea and I go out on dates? I suppose that’s what it seems like- that we don’t “date”. I would say the opposite, though.
After thinking about it and talking with Chelsea about it, I’ve concluded that we do date. We may not go out, but we make time for each other.
Both of our love languages are Quality Time, so it doesn’t require us leaving the house or spending money to have that fulfilled.
I do enjoy going out occasionally, but I don’t need to go out in order to feel like we’re being “productive” as a couple in the world of dating.
Here are some favorite ways that I like to spend time with my partner:
- Watching movies and TV shows together
- Cooking/baking together
- Eating my cereal on the toilet while she brushes her teeth
- Walking together to the mailbox [almost] every evening
- Carpooling to the grocery store, events, my parent’s house, friend’s houses, etc.
- Eating meals together
It doesn’t take much for me to feel happy in my relationship. Neither of us care for elaborate plans and as long as we’re together, anything can feel like quality time.
What’s your love language and how do you make sure your needs are met? How do you make sure your partner’s needs are met?